How can I ever forget my mom? The one who toiled with me through thick and thin. She gave up all, she sacrificed so much of her time and energy just for me to have a life that she never had. Though she is gone, my love and respect for her will never falter. There were nights when I thought we would go to bed without dinner, but oh no, my mother would prepare some soul food that would leave us begging for more. I still miss her Christmas cake and sorrel. These she would prepare every Christmas and the world could come and eat at her table because there was enough for everyone in the house, plus for extended families, friends and visitors.
My siblings and I were never clothe less because she was always sewing that perfect suit for any occasion that arose. Today, if I don't feel like buying a suit in a store I make my own clothes, thanks to my mother who gave me that inspiration. Yes, that was mainly her trade. She sewed for children and adults in her community. Her specialty was making uniforms for students, teachers and Secretaries. The time came when she could no longer sew. Her customers were so disappointed but they will never forget the lady with that God given talent. There were those who could not afford to pay her, but my mother took delight in helping them out just the same.
I remembered this special case, when a parent told my mother that she could not afford to buy the white cotton material to make blouses to complete her child's school uniforms. This was a combination of a white blouse and a blue tunic. My mother thought about it and came up with the perfect solution, and at present I am still smiling about the idea. My mother used a scrap of another customer's material to connect two white sleeves to the blue tunic with the addition of a white color and few buttons at the front to give the impression that a white blouse was under the tunic. That parent was so elated and grateful. The child went to school for the term without anyone noticing that she was not in her prescribed uniform. Yes, my mother was a genius, she was a people person and she loved her family. Mother, I will always remember you.